Arbitrary Blusters.

There’s a quote (I can’t quite recall the exact words) that says something about not taking an opportunity when given. There’s another quote that talks about individuals searching for an ideal boyfriend or girlfriend, that they completely overlook who they have right under their nose.

Girls are always searching for that sweet guy - who will do chivalrous acts for them, remember the little things they do or say, and notice their quirky habits. They look for the guys who succeed in all qualities like appearance, style, and talents. Often, they’re so deeply involved with this search that the guys who meet 80%-95% of their standards get shunned aside. Girls want to find Mr. Prince Charming when in all actuality, the next best guy has been right there the entire time. You know, the nice guy who basically is Prince Charming.

So I’m at a crossroads. I don’t feel like I need to be in a relationship at the moment. But what if I don’t do anything now and this second chance passes on by? It didn’t work out the first time because of my “search”. Yet, what if I’m presented with this second opportunity because he and I are meant to be given another shot?